Hot Irish Temper
I'm one of those old fashion Irish guys who is quick to get mad and quick to forgive. That was fine as a kid, but as an adult I had to start learning how to be more mature. To do so I read Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and learned the universe did not randomly break things just to mess with my head. Then I worked at a summer camp as a cabin counselor. Children are not cats, you cannot herd them . I learned to let go and just let kids be kids. Next I taught. It turns out the average classroom has 29 Tom Sawyers and 1 Becky Thatcher. I learned students love to explore and learn, but they don't like uncertainty. If you make the classroom safe with predictable situations the students will stop trying to take over and start trying to learn. I had a mantra when I taught 4th grade. "You have to be smarter than the kids " Meaning simply that if I got into a war of wills with the kids I would always lose, but if I used my brain I could convince my students they wa